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CREATING THE DATING PROFILE TO GET 1000’S OF VIEWS – DON’T BE SHY!

At first glance, online dating may seem to be the easiest way to get yourself a guy or gal, but it is harder than it looks.  Because online dating is open to anyone and everyone, competition can sometimes be fiercer than fights between gladiators and amazon women in the older times.  If you want to make yourself irresistible without lying about anything, here are some things that you could do.

Improve Your Profile.  If you join any online dating website, the first thing all dating websites will ask you after registering as a member is to create a profile for yourself.  Creating a dating profile will include listing your contact details, your hobbies, your favorite books, and so on.  In short, everything would be about you!  These profiles are open to public viewing, and if a person likes what he is reading, he will be inclined to send you a message.  If you struggle to complete your profile, you can find help in our book store.  Our years of research and interviewing data online will help you represent yourself properly to attach the man or lady you are looking to date and start a great relationship.  The Dating Profile Secrets eBook is designed to help you complete an attractive profile to get thousands of viewers selecting your profile:

The contents of your profile would always be the basis of people’s first impressions of you, so you must write the best things about yourself.  When creating a profile for yourself, make sure that you do not give everything away because that might make people think you’re desperate for attention.  Write your profile based on what type of person you want in your life and base it on what you seek for a long-term relationship; most people are looking for a solid person.

Also, it’s good to keep a little mystery about oneself as it is sexier.  Secondly, don’t lie about anything, even your age, because it’s just a sure way to make things more complicated later. You can’t come back from lying on your profile or during your communication with a potential dating relationship match.  I am sure many of you reading this post can attest to being “CatFished” or “Noodled” after you arrive on a date, and the person sitting in front of you is not the same person in the photo or photos online. The deception is not pretty, to pardon my pond.  Lastly, some online dating websites allow you to customize the look and feel of your profile page using the tools on their website.  Take full advantage of creating a profile that is true to you and what is allowed in the online dating website you’ve joined; make sure that you design your profile page to the best of your capabilities.

If you’re not familiar with what you wish to say in your profile, help is just a click over to our book store.  Most people will use designing tools such as Adobe Photoshop or MS Frontpage to spice up their photos; however, we do not recommend you make major enhancements to your photos.  However, we recommend you mix everyday photos and a couple of professional photos.  People you seek to date want to see the real you and not the photo-shopped you.  Beautiful photos of you on your profile will attract more viewers and potential dates.  Great photos, good grammar, and being honest on your profile page has better chances of grabbing people’s attention than one with augmented photos.  Tell the reader what you are looking for in a potential date or relationship and be clear in your communication; some say unapologetically.

It’s Time To Come Out Of Your Shell.  If you’re the type of person who usually takes years of getting to know a person before you fully loosen up, then online dating is what you need.  During dates, I bet you found it very hard to let the person get to know the real you because you felt very self-conscious and shy.

You can be as bold as you want when dating online or talking on the phone for the first time!  Remind yourself that the person you’re talking to can’t see you unless you’re using a webcam, so let loose of your inhibitions start having fun and acting irresistibly!  If you lack self-confidence on a date, it will make for a difficult first date.  Most people will pick up on this personality problem, and it will immediately be a negative character flaw or trait!

If you need additional help finding the right person for you, feel free to sign up for relationship coaching, take one of our classes, or purchase one of our books in the shop on this website.  Your success in dating is our mission!

You can make more money or acquire more of whatever you want by investing in yourself than in any other investment.

1.  Love you more than you love material things. Love you more than you love someone else. Love your past because it will teach you that you have more life in front of you because you can’t change the past, but you can learn from the good and bad lessons. I love the journey in life and learning how to love others more.

2.  Learn how to love yourself by practicing an active life of gratitude and forgiveness. Learn how to master the “art of self-learning,” living is learning new things daily. Therefore, you should recognize that you can learn something from everyone.

3.  Take growth and success ACTIONS daily! Newton’s Third Law of Motion states, “For every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction.” Therefore, you MUST be working toward a better life, career, relationship, business, or changing the course of your life every minute, hour, day, and year if you wish to see a massive change in your life.

4. Loving yourself and being happy is a personal choice!  It is true some people are naturally happy, and you see them as loving themselves more. This is proven through a genetic disposition. This doesn’t mean that you were born to be miserable if you are not a naturally happy person. Your happiness is influenced by your genetics, but it is not fixed as a determining factor.  If you are not a naturally happy person you can change the way you think and feel so you are. The key is to change the way your brain thinks and the things you do. You can learn to do things daily to bring up your happiness level which will help you learn to smile more and be a happier person. Your mindful thinking is the key to happiness.

 – There are forces out in the universe and around you that are working hard to help your growth and success, so keep your eyes and mind open to spot them and then take swift action to move in that direction.  The oppositive is true as well; there are internal forces that are personal to you that can take you from your successful path. Those forces are procrastination, fear, feeling of lacking support, doubtful thinking, and not having a definite major purpose for your life.

 – Destructive Forces you don’t see, and they are close to you; in your friend circle, in your family, and in your home that is working against your forward growth…envy, jealousy, greed, gluttony, and over-consumption. These forces can be internal or external to the people around you.

5.  Life-Long Learning is the key to lasting success, wealth, and excellent health. We live in an ever-changing environment and world, so we need to continue learning from birth to going home to glory! Knowledge is the key to greater health and generational wealth.

People have always been immoral, shiftless, and self-gratifying. For ages, humankind struggled to find a conceptual system to operationalize their spiritual, personal, and work ethics shortcomings. Therefore, put greater energy into attracting positive people into your life. The key to “investing in you,” is surrounding yourself with motivated and great-spirited people from friends to dating.

6.  People in your circle, you know, are plotting environments and surroundings that are familiar, but that comfort is toxic. In the motivational world, it has been said we’re the sum of the 5 closes people in our life. Therefore, you need to change your circle of friends to live a better life.

If you invest in yourself before deciding to date someone, you will bring much great confidence to that dating experience. This confidence will be felt on a date and by your friends. Take time to heal the wombs from past relationships to free you up to date better. Most people don’t wish to date a person still carrying around baggage from past relationships. Moreover, you need to invest in loving yourself! If you invest in yourself, you will be able to give more to dating to enhance the opportunity to have a good relationship.

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